Do you speak your mind freely in person when someone is ignorant or wrong about gender issues?

Well...yes. I'm a bit tired of trying to explain there is nothing “natural” in a human world, so, since I'm not a woman who tents to a natural behaviour, something is wrong with me. Yesterday a co worker told me "You must be treated badly for a man"...I answer her that some of them treated me bad, some of have treated me well, in the same way women have treated me bad or well. How do you explain that ignorant person empowerment is not revenge???...